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Anonymous asked:

Do you believe in leagues like you should date someone that just as attractive as you?

allthingsgayandcute:

I’m gonna assume you’re talking about physical attractiveness. No, you should date someone that you connect with or feel that you can connect with. Physical attraction is important for a lot of people (if not most), but connection on a deeper level is far more important if you want an amazing relationship.

When we split ourselves into “leagues” we show how unworthy we feel in general, which is much more than just about finding and forming relationships. We also cut ourselves off from meeting someone that could be perfect for us by judging and labelling them often without knowing anything about them apart from what appears on the surface.

We’re all human, we’re all people, and no one is better or worse than anyone else until we start applying our judgements and beliefs to them (or ourselves) and their way of life.

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